The abduction of Caramen T.


Surgery.
September 16th, 2018



Finally, D-Day arrived.

I went to the hospital on 16 September 2018, one day before the surgery, to make everything ready.

I was transported to the surgery theater where a doctor was going to implant a flexible needle in my back trough which I could inject a dose of Morphine in my spine when needed.

This device, injecting Morphine in the spine by the patient himself to ease the pain, was used for painfull surgery.

He assured me that I would be very grateful to have this implant when the surgery would be finished.

Every time I would feel pain, I only had to push a button and immediately a small dose of Morphine would be injected in my spine.

After the implantation, I returned to my room and I send a message to my brother with the room number where I would be staying.


My room at the hospital.


Sep 16, 2018, 6:45 PM, screen picture with my room number.


At the evening, I received a message from Inge, my brothers' daughter, that she wanted to visit me before the operation.

Inge was working at the same hospital and we had not seen each other for a long time.


From Message Date
Inge Trivino Am cycling now,
come to Z-H to visit granddaughter,
come see if you are alone or send an icon
Sep 16, 2018, 7:15 PM
Gylenthal Georges Today I am alone in the room Sep 16, 2018, 7:17 PM
Gylenthal Georges The operation is tomorrow Sep 16, 2018, 7:17 PM
Inge and her father Luis (my brother) had big arguments a few years ago about some pictures she posted on a Facebook page without asking "his permission".
She had been "Banned" out of my brother's life.
My brother had all his life very bad relations with almost everybody.
Even his own son Kim commited suicide because of him.
Although these pictures were not about him and he was not on these pictures, he was not pleased with posting pictures about our family without his permission.
Because of this, Inge and her family was not "welcome" anymore at his house and they tried to avoid each other.
Inge uses the name of the town where Luis was living (Diepenbeek) to refer to him and his wife.
Inge Trivino Then Diepenbeek will not come? Sep 16, 2018, 7:18 PM
Gylenthal Georges Luis is dancing and Mina is at an exhibition Sep 16, 2018, 7:19 PM
Gylenthal Georges Samui was unable to come to the hospital Sep 16, 2018, 7:19 PM
Inge Trivino See you later then. Sep 16, 2018, 7:20 PM
Inge Trivino I am in the hospital Sep 16, 2018, 9:37 PM
Gylenthal Georges Me too Sep 16, 2018, 9:37 PM

Inge had also contacted my youngest sister Diana, and she had promised to contact me later.

I didn't had hear anything from her a long time.

Around 8pm, I received a SMS message from her and we had a chat.


Diana Trivino, Sep 17, 2018, 1:53 AM
Diana Trivino Hi Carlo,
I just heard that you are in the hospital but I can't get off because I'm going to have a tough week at work. it's very busy and i have to work overtime and work until 22 and I can't handle hospitals very well but keep me informed and I will burn a candle tomorrow it will be fine and Inge will come on Tuesday she said to me I think that is more useful to you I cannot stand hospital smell and the older I get the worse all sleep well and good luck tomorrow
Trivino Y Garcia A.
It's ok Diana.
I'm happy to hear from you again.
Diana Trivino
Don't know what to say too long ago and been through a lot in the meantime but it will be okay
Keep me informed ok but I work long hours but I am always available on my mobile ok
Trivino Y Garcia A. I also experienced a lot here in the meantime.
Diana Trivino
Are you no longer in Thailand
Trivino Y Garcia A.
I still live in Thailand
Diana Trivino
Ah ok that's good or not
better than here I don't think?
Trivino Y Garcia A.
But I urgently had to come to Belgium because my aorta is about to burst Thailand is much better than Belgium
Diana Trivino
Can they do something
I believe that, but you will definitely have to stay here for a while
Trivino Y Garcia A.
But I have no medical insurance in Thailand
Diana Trivino
Long live Belgium
Trivino Y Garcia A.
Yes, at least 6 weeks
Diana Trivino
At Louis?
Trivino Y Garcia A.
Yes
With Carmen
My daughter
Diana Trivino
I haven't seen your daughter for a long time
Always working
Trivino Y Garcia A.
She's is now 16 years old
Diana Trivino
So big already
Trivino Y Garcia A.
A real lady
Diana Trivino
I believe that
have a good rest, then you will be fit tomorrow
Trivino Y Garcia A.
Tomorrow I will probably sleep all day under anaesthesia
Diana Trivino
Inge will keep me informed
Trivino Y Garcia A.
I will send an SMS when I am back in the room
Diana Trivino
That's good
Trivino Y Garcia A.
Thanks for the chat
Diana Trivino
You're welcome
Trivino Y Garcia A.
Sleep well
Diana Trivino
You too

In a discussion with her friends at school, my daughter wrote that she was hoping that I would come back from the hospital soon.


Mar Cosmo, Sep 16, 2018, 1:54 PM
Mar Cosmo Sorry been stressful alot
Mar Cosmo I'm just hope that my dad would come back to me from the hospital soon...

The next day, 17 September 2018, a phone call from my daughter at 8 am woke me up.

She was very happy to hear me on the phone.


20180917 075359, Call from my daughter.


At 12:10 PM, I was brought into the surgery theatre and the surgeons started their work.

Cutting my Aorta open from the hearth to my legs, insert an artificial pipe into the Aorta and close the Aorta again.

The surgeon was also going to put an artificial aorta in the blood vessels to the Kidneys, the Liver, and other organs of my body.

A difficult operation would be the aorta to my kidney as this aorta had already "In Vitro" surgery in 1995 and a stent was placed to open the Aorta.


Later, back in Thailand, I realised that the doctor had removed 2 ribs from my left side.

I send an email to the hospital asking for an explanation and they responded that they had to remove 2 ribs on 1 side in order to access the aorta near the heart.

As the removed ribs were "Floating Ribs", there was no way to put then back after the surgery.


The next day, 18 September, I woke up in the Intensive Care room.

Later that day, the doctor who had performed the surgery came to see me and said that the operation took a lot of time but was OK now.


Two days later, I was recovered enough to be transferred to the room.

On September 20, 3:45 PM, I received an SMS from my brother, asking if I could receive a visit already.


SMS Message from my brother: "Can you receive visitors already?".


One minute later, I received an SMS from Diana, my younger sister, asking if everything was well.


Diana Trivino, Sep 20, 2018, 15:46:00
Diana Trivino Hey Carlo when you are back with Louis Let me know then I'll drop by ok rather there then the hospital.
Trivino Y Garcia A. Now back from intensive.
Diana Trivino And are you okay.
Trivino Y Garcia A. Still feeling very sick.
Diana Trivino Oh, please let yourself be pampered and rest well ok.

I didn’t feel to much pain and everything seemed to go well.

The next few days my daughter came to visit me almost every day and we were making plans to return to Thailand.

She was very happy that the surgery went so well.

Revalidating could be done in Thailand as well.


My brother brought my daughter to visit me, sometimes with his wife.

The chats with my brother and his wife were very short and mostly they would leave my daughter with me and go to drink something at the canteen of the hospital.


Everything seemed to go well until end of September.

On September 23th, the nurses who came change the dressing noticed something that was not normal and called a doctor.

Due to my high blood pressure, the aorta was starting to burst and blood was coming out of the aorta and spreading over my lungs and other organs causing fever because of an infection.

I was crawling from pain and I could barely sleep because of the pain in my Torso.

Despite the Morphine injections.

The doctor analysed me and ordered a few test for the next day.

Doppler scan, X-Rays, etc.

I am not a doctor, but something was ringing a bell for me.

Something was going wrong with the operation, was my first guess.


The next day, 24th September, Inge messaged me to know the results.

But nobody was telling me what was going on.


From Message Date
Inge Trivino How did it go today, a little better than yesterday? Sep 24, 2018, 11:47 PM
Gylenthal Georges tired Sep 24, 2018, 11:47 PM
Gylenthal Georges Dead tired Sep 24, 2018, 11:48 PM
Gylenthal Georges X-rays, Doppler scan, etc. Sep 24, 2018, 11:49 PM
Inge Trivino I believe so, what were the results? Sep 24, 2018, 11:50 PM
Gylenthal Georges Do not know Sep 24, 2018, 11:50 PM
Inge Trivino Tomorrow will be, then you will sleep well early today after such a day. Sep 24, 2018, 11:52 PM
Gylenthal Georges Have asked for a sleeping pill Sep 24, 2018, 11:53 PM
Inge Trivino I really hope it helps you, you need it, don't you?😢 Sep 24, 2018, 11:54 PM
Gylenthal Georges Yes Sep 24, 2018, 11:54 PM
Gylenthal Georges For real Sep 24, 2018, 11:54 PM
Inge Trivino Okay, now go do my routine: watch the news, wash, pajamas. Sep 25, 2018, 12:00 AM
Gylenthal Georges Just a little while longer and then ask for my sleeping pill Sep 25, 2018, 12:01 AM
Inge Trivino Then I would say: let it taste good and it works better😘 Sep 25, 2018, 12:02 AM

A few friends came also to visit me.

Some of them had been living in Thailand with me, but had to go back to Belgium for medical reasons or for family problems.

Jef de Groof and his wife Kamlai did return 1 year before because a Cancer was detected in his brain and he was happy to see me back in Belgium.


Visit of Jef de Groof and Kamlai on September 27.


On 27 September my daughter called me, still full of joy, to know how I was and I tried to explain to her that I had an infection and the doctor didn’t want to let me go as long as I had an infection.

But my daughter didn’t understand what an “infection” was.


20180927 182248, Call from my daughter.


I also published this picture on my Facebook and got a lot of wishes from my friends in Thailand


VIP visit at the hospital.
From Message Date
Linda Tantiwong Is the operation done? Sep 27, 2018, 10:54 PM
Gylenthal Georges The operation is finished.
But living in a hell of pain now.
Will need to recover at least 6 weeks.
Sep 27, 2018, 11:59 PM
Linda Tantiwong I am so happy you are okay😘 see you in thailand my friend Sep 28, 2018, 12:00 AM
Linda Tantiwong Sep 28, 2018, 12:00 AM
Linda Tantiwong waiting for you lol Sep 28, 2018, 12:03 AM
Linda Tantiwong We miss you both here Sep 27, 2018, 10:54 PM
Jirawan Ph Larsen Get well soon ☺️ Sep 27, 2018, 11:21 PM
Juan Reyes Veel beterschap! Sep 27, 2018, 11:58 PM
Tamara Trivino Oooh ma goed dat achter de rug is nu nog het herstel hoop dat dat spoedig verloopt . Sep 28, 2018, 12:12 AM
Laura Murillo Veel beterschap van ons. Sep 28, 2018, 12:47 AM
Karel Vandervorst Goh , das ook lang geleden dak dien nog gezien heb ! Doet m de groeten ! Sep 28, 2018, 1:42 AM
Murillo Paco En Vanessa Beterschap Sep 28, 2018, 2:37 AM
Gordon Wright Good to hear. Get well soon. All the best from the Wright's 😎 Sep 28, 2018, 6:41 AM
David Bare Good to see you. Looks like you're doing a little better. Sep 30, 2018, 2:13 PM
Gylenthal Georges Surgery is finished.
But they fear for my Kidneys.
Sep 30, 2018, 3:53 PM
Dimitri Eric Gute Besserung wünsche ich dir Sep 30, 2018, 2:43 PM


Her teacher in Thailand, Mrs. Bee, asked her how I was and she answered that she might need to stay another month in Belgium.

Nevertheless, the teacher from Thailand send again a scaremonging message to my daughter.

Altough I had already explained the situation to the direction of the school 2 times already and the school confirmed their agreement.


From Message Date
Beebee Sattaphan Hello Sep 28, 2018 6:12am
Beebee Sattaphan Every thing ok? Sep 28, 2018 6:12am
Mar Cosmo Yep Sep 28, 2018 10:59am
Mar Cosmo My dad is in the hospital now Sep 28, 2018 10:59am
Mar Cosmo And he wonder if you could take a picture of everything that my classroom are studying right now.
So I could follow what they are learning
Sep 28, 2018 10:59am
Beebee Sattaphan Yes i hope he will be better soon. Sep 28, 2018 4:46pm
Beebee Sattaphan I will try to help for this semester but do you how long you need to stay there. Sep 28, 2018 4:47pm
Beebee Sattaphan Cause school in Thailand, they have limit for the date allow you to take a day off. Sep 28, 2018 4:48pm
Beebee Sattaphan And i hope your dad will be better soon and can take you back. Sep 28, 2018 4:49pm

Mar Cosmo I'll may stay in Belgium one more month or more cause my dad still need to recover Sep 30, 2018 12:31pm
Beebee Sattaphan Sep 30, 2018 1:02pm