The abduction of Caramen T.

Recovering.
October 27th, 2018

From my bed at intensive care I tried to get help with the kidnapping of my daughter by my brother, but at no aval.

On 25th October, I contacted the Thai Embassy in Belgium to see if they could help me with getting my daughter back.

Although I wrote very clear that I contacted the police already, their answer was that I should contact the police to help me.

So, no real help on this problem.

I contacted the health care if they could help me with my daughter’s kidnapping and a place to stay.

The Health Care office advised me to call the OCMW (Public center for Social Welfare) for a legal address and the problems with my daughter.

If they can not help me with the problems of my daughter, I should try to contact the CAW (Center for General Welfare).

I was kicked out of my brothers’ house, but there was a lot of things missing in my travel bag and they were still at my brothers house.

I send a SMS Message to my daughter, asking her to return my belongings to the hospital.

I asked also to bring her phone back as it was property from True and I needed to return it

In the afternoon, my brother came into my room at the hospital, like a fury, with an old travel bag, deposit it in the room and left.

Without saying a word.

No sign of my daughter.

I send my daughter a message to know the reason why she did not came to visit me.

Apparently, she was in the car, but she was told by my brother to NOT leave the car.

“Luis told me to stay in the car”.

That was too much and I called the police.

At first, the police was not keen to go to the hospital to take a complaint, but I insisted, and they came to the hospital to write a complaint.

I told the police what happened and that my daughter was not allowed to leave the car by my brother.

Later, in 2019, I read the report from the police.

The police did not ask anything about why my daughter was not allowed to leave the car and come to visit me.

Instead, the police believed the lies from my brother and the "fantasies" from the headmaster Ms. Busschots.

Today on Wednesday, October 24, 2018 at 12:51 PM I, VAN DEN BROECK Tinne, Chief Inspector with specialty police assistant, draftsman, assisted by Rijcken Greet, social assistant, SMOLDERS Ellen, social assistant, calling PZ CARMA (5384), bring the following to my attention to your office:

Nature, place and time of the facts: Breaches of youth protection legislation: Disturbing Parenting Situation. Main residence: House / villa. Municipality: 3590 DIEPENBEEK Street: Keistraat no.: 2 Date and time: 24/10/2018 at 11:00 am. Acknowledgment of the fact by the police: Determined on 24/10/2018 at 12:52 pm. Acknowledgment: Ex officio.

Brief account of the facts: TRIVINO Y Garcia Abelardo calls our services. He is with his underage daughter, TRIVINO Y GARCIA Caramen of 16 years old on holiday in Belgium and stays with his brother, Trivino Luis, in Diepenbeek. TRIVINO Y Garcia Abelardo is currently in the hospital ward. Since he wants to go back to Thailand one of the next days, he tries to contact his daughter, but this does not work. According to TRIVINO Y Garcia Abelardo, Trivino Luis is keeping his daughter behind.

Our services have a conversation with TRIVINO Y GARCIA Caramen.

Parties involved: Victim: TRIVINO Y GARCIA Caramen. Nationality: Belgian SSN.: ........... Female, unmarried Born in Nakhon Ratchasima / Thailand on ../../.... Residing abroad at 3600, GENK. Means of identification: derived from police investigation - validated. REMARK: 1. My daughter has the DOUBLE NATIONALITY, Thai/Belgian, and was at the date of the facts a THAI subject as she had not reached the age of 18 years. 2. My daughter has NEVER been residing in GENK. She was residing TEMPORARLY in Diepenbeek, which at my knowledge is NOT GENK. 3. My daughter was on a HOLIDAY TRIP in Belgium, which according to my brother was ILLEGAL IN BELGIUM.

Civil Responsible: TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo. Nationality: Belgian Male, divorced Clerk (Payrolling) Born in Barcelona/spain on ../../.... Residing at 2840 RUMST, .......... .. Means of identification: derived from police investigation - validated. REMARK: 1. I quit Rumst 18 years ago and I reside since 2000 in THAILAND!!!!!   Translation:   City / Municipality of Rumst   Nis code .....   No. ...   Model 8   The registrar of the municipality of rumst confirms that the named trivino Y Garcia, Abelardo,   SSN .....   as well as the persons belonging to the same family or some of them was removed from the registers of the municipality of Rumst on 11-12-02   For: Thailand   (date) 27.03.03   Signature of the registrar of births, deaths and marriages or his authorized representative   municipal seal 2. I am retired coalminer since 2002, not a "Clerck".

Civil Responsible: MATIYAPAK Kanoknuan nationality: Thai female born in 22/01/1969 living abroad at 3600 Genk Means of identification: derived from police investigation REMARK: Apparently, my ex-wife is living abroad at GENK and not in THAILAND. If these facts are delivered from the police investigation, the whole Belgian police is a big joke.

Others: TRIVINO Luis, Manuel, Jose male, divorced Trading Representative (salaried) born in Barcelona/spain on 09/11/1952 residing in 3590 Diepenbeek, Keistraat 2 Means of identification: derived from police investigation - validated. REMARK: Trivino Luis is married to Cosima Pino who is the owner ofthe house in Diepenbeek.

On 24/10/2018, TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo contact PZ Carma by telephone and have a conversation with social assistant RJJCKEN Greet. TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo says he lives in Thailand with his 16-year-old daughter, TRIVINO Y GARCIA Caramen. In August 2018, TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo came to Belgium with his daughter Caramen to have an operation here. During their stay in Belgium, TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo and his daughter could go to TRIVINO Luis, residing at 3950 Diepenbeek, Keistraat 2, the brother of TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo. TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo is currently in the hospital. He tells that his daughter is still staying with his brother and that he no longer has contact with his daughter. TRIVINO Luis would cut all contact between Caramen and her father. TRIVINO Y Garcia Abelardo wants to return to Thailand one of the next days and wishes to speak to his daughter about this. Last Friday, TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo was kicked out by his brother. He doesn't know why. His daughter still stays with Trivino Luis. Caramen is currently going to school in Belgium. She takes lessons in the middle school in Genk where she is in the entry-level class for newcomers who speak other languages.

At 11:20, social assistants RIJCKEN Greet and SMOLDERS Ellen arrive at the campus Genk middle school. We speak here with student counselor Mart BUSSCHOTS. We hear that Caramen has trust in the student counselor and has told her about everything. We hear from BUSSCHOTS Mart the following:

Caramen started school on October 3, 2018. Caramen is in the entry-level class for foreign-speaking newcomers and was registered by her uncle TRIVINO Luis. I tried to register Caramen at that school long before Luis, but because I could not find adequate transport for a 16 year old child in a foreign country, I was looking for other possibilities. My brother, LUIS, refused to take Caramen to the school as "he needed the car for more important things as being a babysitter". (see chapter: 20180820 finding a school.html).

From day 1 that Caramen is at school, they have the feeling at school that Caramen does not feel good about herself. Caramen has strange behavior, Caramen developped a strange behavior since 2004. That's the main reason that Caramen has no friends. Caramen was since 2004 under the supervision of a children doctor for her strange behavior. If Ms. Busschots would have spoken to the REAL PARENTS of Caramen, she would have been informed of this. "sms","deliver","Amacher Daniel","+66861470864&","2013. 1.13 13:19,5,","Do you still need help from a psychologist for your daughter? If yes, give me your e-mail. Will send you the adress. Danny","sms","submit","Amacher Daniel","+66861470864","2013. 1.13 13:52,5,""trivicar@gmail.com" NOT a SALSA DANCING CUCKOO!!!!!

for example, she constantly seeks contact with the teacher / pupil counselor, Caramen constantly seeks contact with everybody she meet. Caramen seeks affection.

imitated a chicken, Caramen can imitate many animals. But a chicken she can do the best.

has written in an essay that she likes to bite her own skin. Samui wrote in her "essays" many more things like that. Even when she was much younger. That's why she was under doctors control. And that's the reason why she TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE in September 2019 under the supervision of that SALSA DANCING CUCKOO!!!!! Caramen is a "ticking time bomb" that soon will go off again. Let's hope that the SALSA DANCING CUCKOO will be around when that will happen.

Last week, Caramen told school that her father is not doing well at home. Her father would be dying. During the religion class Caramen started to cry. She then said that Daddy hurts her and is aggressive towards her, both physically and verbally. Yep, she was "Physically and Verbally" abused in such an extend that 9 months later, at the court house, she escaped the grip of the youth workers, ran to her father, started to cry and embraced him in font of all the lawyers and judges who were there at that time. The words from my lawyer: "I cannot believe that a child who was so abused as she declared would do these things." Van: Trivino Y Garcia Abelardo Datum: donderdag 19 september 2019 12:21 Aan: Advocaat P. P. Onderwerp: Hof van beroep Beste P, Ik vraag uw mij te verontschuldigen om wat heden gebeurd is. De beslissing van Samui om na 11 maanden niet tegen mij te willen praten rond mijn nek te vliegen was mij teveel geworden. Ik heb de email verstuurd zoals U gevraagd heb en hoop op een antwoord. MVG Trivino Y Garcia A. Van: Advocaat P. P. Datum: donderdag 19 september 2019 7:49 PM Aan: Trivino Y Garcia Abelardo Onderwerp: Re: Hof van beroep Beste Abelardo, Er is geen enkele reden dat u zich dient te verontschuldigen. Het was een heel emotioneel moment waar ik veel begrip voor heb en waar ik veel uit geleerd heb. Uw dochter zit echt gevangen in een keurslijf en kan zichzelf niet zijn. Als ze vrijuit kon spreken zonder druk en bemoeienissen zaten we in een heel andere situatie. Ik hoop verder dat mevr. Mortier u morgen kan spreken. We hebben alleszins ons best gedaan en er valt u niets te verwijten. Mvg. P. P. Translation: From: Trivino Y Garcia Abelardo Date: Thursday, September 19, 2019 12:21 PM To: Lawyer P. P. Subject: Court of Appeal Dear P, I ask you to apologize for what happened today. Samui's decision to jump on me cling around my neck after 11 months of not wanting to talk to me had become too much for me. I have sent the email as you requested and hope for an answer. Regards Trivino Y Garcia A. From: Lawyer P. P. Date: Thursday, September 19, 2019 7:49 PM To: Trivino Y Garcia Abelardo Subject: Re: Court of Appeals Dear Abelardo, There is no reason you should apologize. It was a very emotional moment that I understand a lot and from which I learned a lot. Your daughter is really trapped in a straitjacket and cannot be herself. If she could speak freely without pressure and interference we would be in a completely different situation. I further hope that Mrs. Mortier can speak to you tomorrow. We have certainly done our best and you cannot be blamed. Kind regards. P. P.

Caramen don't want to return to Thailand. She feels good in Belgium. Yes, she feels good in Belgium. So good that she wanted to commit suicide 9 months later and was locked up in a madhouse. From: "Mortier Hilde" To: "trivicar@gmail.com" Subject: Samui Importance: high Date: Fri, 13 Sep 2019 17:02:43 +0000 Hello Carlos, You may know that there have been concerns about the reception of Samui in your brother's family for some time, which is also why the screening was extended by 6 months some time ago. In recent months we were especially concerned about the emotional and psychological well-being / well-being of your daughter and the way in which the prospective foster parents dealt with this. A psychologist was recently called in. Today the situation has escalated to such an extent that Samui, who was self-mutating and struggling with suicidal thoughts, has completely collapsed emotionally and has been admitted to the K-service of Asster in Sint-Truiden in crisis. She finds the necessary peace there, is well received and can stay there until 19.09.2019. A return to your brother's family is no longer an option. Other solutions will have to be found. Samui herself speaks of a living group or room training. Suggestions from your side are of course always welcome! Greetings, Hilde

Caramen was born in Thailand. Her mother is of Thai descent. When her mother was pregnant with her, she wanted to have an abortion. Her father did not agree. Caramen sees her father as her savior. What a load of crock. Her mother NEVER wanted to have an abortion. Having an abortion would have cut the "money flow for her gambling habit" and would be the adverse of what she wanted. Her mother wanted to kill Caramen for the insurance money and I kicked the mother out of our house immediatly.

Her parents always argued a lot. When Caramen was about 5 - 6 years old, her parents were divorced. Her mother works in prostitution. Caramen was raised by her father. She has no contact with her mother. Her father demanded a lot of her, Caramen had to take care of her father. He is said to have psychological problems. According to Caramen, it is very common in Thailand for her to be beaten. Caramen goes to school in Thailand. Caramen was bullied at school in Thailand. Even at school they would be afraid of Dad because he is aggressive. The reason that Caramen was bullied and beaten at school was her behavior. Caramen had no friends because of her behavior. That was also the reason why she was constantly hanging on people and I consulted a "Psycholog" for her. Caramen was born in 2002 and I divorced her mother in 2013. Thus. Caramen was 11 years old.

Caramen sees a better future for itself in Belgium. Her uncle and his wife are nice to her. Yep, Caramen is soooo happy in Belgium and her uncle and his wife are sooo nice to her that she wanted to commit suicide in September and return to her uncle and his wife, aka the "family", was not an option anymore.

TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo has informed Caramen that he wants to return to Thailand. Caramen, in turn, has informed her father that she is enjoying herself here. Caramen constantly receives messages and calls from her father. Dad keeps all passports. Caramen is enjoying herself sooooo much that she wanted to commit suicide. What a load of crocks from Ms. BUSSCHOTS who wants to call herself a teacher.

School is out at 12.30 pm. TRIVINO Luis is coming to get TRIVINO y GARCIA Caramen at school. We have a conversation with TRIVINO Luis and learn the following: Are we talking here about the same Trivino Luis, the SALSA DANCING CUCKOO, as the Trivino Luis who wanted to let my daughter sleep in the caravan outside (20180812 planning a trip to belgium.html) and refused to use his car to bring my daughter to school (20180820 finding a school.html)?

TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo has contacted his brother TRIVINO Luis in August. TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo has medical problems. He cannot be helped in Thailand. Thailand has very good hospitals and doctors and a lot of people are making "health trips" to Thailand because of the lower price tag than in their own country. The reason that I wanted to travel to Belgium was because I could not afford the price tag of this surgery.

TRIVINO Luis then let his brother come over to Belgium in the hope that they can help him in Belgium. TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo has heart problems. Around his heart he has 5 veins that need to be replaced. Woooowwwwww I have 5 veins around my heart? And they need all to be replaced? Who is this Trivino Luis? A self declared specialist in health care?

Doctors do not dare to start right on this. In Genk they have found a doctor who has replaced 1 vein. The rest of the veins have yet to be done. Furthermore, TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo has a shriveled kidney and they are still investigating whether he has Crohn's disease or cancer. TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo would not take care of himself. Wait a momment ...... Are we talking about the same Trivino Luis, the SALSA DANCING CUCKOO, here? The same Trivino Luis who declared in "20181016 escaping hell.html": "He has nothing. "He has absolutely nothing. "He is perfectly healthy.

TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo was in hospital for 4 weeks. In the meantime, TRIVINO Luis has taken care of the daughter of TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo. Because Carmen is now in Belgium longer than the originally intended term, TRIVINO Luis enrolled her at school. He brings and fetches her every day. I asked the school to enroll Caramen. Not that SALSA DANCING CUCKOO Read: "20180820 finding a school.html" Caramen was not enrolled in that school because there was no transportation available and the SALSA DANCING CUCKOO did not want to use his car to bring/fetch a child to school.

Caramen likes to go to school, she wants to learn Dutch. Yep, a child who was 2nd of her class and spoke fluently English, Chinese and Thai (2 INTERNATIONAL) langauges, speaks now Dutch and forgot everything she had been learning for 16 years. Hoorah

TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo has been back in hospital since last Friday. His life expectations don't look very positive. The "flip flopping" SALSA DANCING CUCKOO telling lies again? It is very difficult to repeat a lie. The same Trivino Luis who declared in "20181016 escaping hell.html": "He has nothing. "He has absolutely nothing. "He is perfectly healthy.

According to TRIVINO Luis, his brother is not allowed to travel by air for medical reasons. TRIVINO Luis says that he evicted his brother from his home last Friday. TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo had been asking for attention all week. He felt that his daughter sought less contact with him as she now has friends here, is flourishing, .... Yep, Caramen is soooo "flourishing" in Belgium and her uncle and his wife are sooo nice to her that she wanted to commit suicide and return to her uncle and his wife, the "family", was not an option anymore.

Because TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo was not getting the desired attention, he removed his diapers filled with feces and wiped them all over the house. Yep, I was not able to come out of bed or to do anything myself anymore (due to the good care of the SALSA DANCING CUCKOO) but I was removing my diapers filled with feces and wipe them all over the house. The lies of Luis have no border. For TRIVINO Luis this was the last straw that prompted him to put his brother out. TRIVINO Luis still wants to take care of Caramen. Wasn't the last straw the night that everybody started to call you in the middle of the night and asking what was going on there? Sure Luis wants to take care of Caramen. But after her suicide attempt in September 2019, he and his wife were not more allowed to come near of Caramen.

After our conversation with TRIVINO Luis he leaves home with Caramen. Nice "conversation". Could as well have had a "conversation" with the "fool on the hill".

At about 15:30 hours, social assistant RUCKEN Greet contacts TRIVINO Y GARCIA Abelardo by phone. We inform him that we have had contact with his brother and daughter and that we have drawn up an official report. We inform him that Caramen is staying with her uncle for the time being as he cannot vouch for Caramen's care.

In other words, RUCKEN GREET let my daughter Caramen stay with her kidnapper Marc Dutroux (Luis Trivino) and let her commit suicide to get out of his hands. You have to love the BELGIAN POLICE alias Comedy Capers. Notifications: CIELEN Veerle, public prosecutor Limburg By telephone by HINP BUNTINX on 24/10/2018 at 11:55 am Decision: - Concrete questioning of daughter at school - Re-contact with JANS Philip, public prosecutor Limburg By telephone on 24/10/2018 at 12:10 pm Decision: - Prepare PV VOS - Send PV to JANS Philip by e-mail - PZ LRH will carry out further investigation (TRIVINO Y CARCIA Caramen interview) Official report was closed on 24/10/2018.

Apparently, the police visited my brother to know the reason why my daughter was not allowed to leave the car.

Hearing that I called the police, my daughter send me a message why I called the police.

She wrote: "I told you not to call the police".

The next day, in the late afternoon, a lady came to my room and presented herself.

While showing her card she said: “I am Bieke Stinckens, from the youth police and I would like to ask you some questions. Is that OK for you?“

I agreed, and we started to chat.

The first thing she asked was if I was able to have a chat and if I understood why she was there.

I agreed again, and she started to ask questions.

She asked questions about my daughter; How we lived in Thailand; How my daughter her relation with the school was; How I was treating my daughter; How I was taking take care of my daughter; How my relation with my brother was; Etc.

The whole questioning was done in a relaxed matter and she was writing everything in her portfolio.

I showed her the pictures of me and my daughter in Thailand and in Belgium and the school results which were in the Blue File I kept.

I also showed her pictures and movies of the other activities of my daughter, such as guitar playing, Scuba diving, Aikido, Golf, drawing pictures and making animations, knitting and sewing; Etc.

After about 2 house of chatting (read: questioning) she said that my brother and my daughter had filed a complaint at the youth police in Hasselt and she was required to do an inquiry.

I asked her if it was possible to see a copy of the complaint.

She promised to send it to me as soon as possible.

The next day, early in the morning, I received a mail of Bieke Stinckens with a copy of the complaint filed by my brother.

From:   Bieke Stinckens To:   trivicar@gmail.com Subject:   registration OCJ Trivino y Garcia Caramen. Date:   Mon, 29 Oct 2018 13:19:51 +0000 Good day Mr Trivino Y Garcia, As promised, I email you in attachment the letter from the Public Prosecutor's Office in Hasselt regarding the registration of Caramen at the Support Center for Youth Care. With best regards Police Limburg Region Capital

Reading the attachment almost gave me a heart attack.

The juvenile prosecutor received an official report regarding the disturbing situation of my minor child Caramen.

Everything was now in the court hands and I was advised to cooperate with them to avoid the intervention by the juvenile court/judge.

ALL THIS was happening while I was in the hospital in a critical condition.

How they could ever accept to create such a mess while I was in the hospital and had no defence was incredible.

I was astonished to read that my daughter was all of the sudden in the hands of the court because of a “troubling parenting situation”.

A few days before, she was still full of joy and waiting impatiently to go back to Thailand and now somebody decided that she was in a “troubling parenting situation”.

Why?

Although the letter was directed to me, I never received such letter.

At that date, I was recovering in the Intensive Care and nobody told me about such letter.

Although my brother had me kicked out of his house, my official address was still at his house and he was receiving all my letters WITHOUT forwarding them to me.

Was this what my brother meant when he said “you will never see your daughter back”

Working his evil plan with out my daughter while I was in the hospital, complete defenceless.

I wrote an email back to the Police woman and asked her about the sentence “abused child”.

Was I beating my daughter?

Did I not take care of my daughter?

Her answer was that it was not written that I was beating my daughter but there was a “worrying parenting situation” and if I would like to have more information on the subject I should contact the OCJ.

I tried to contact the OCJ from my bed in the hospital, but my phone card (and me) was not up to answering all the menu questions before I could get in contact with anybody.

Later, back home in Thailand, I was able to read the complaint filed by my brother and my daughter.

A file full of lies and slander.

On 29 October, in the morning, the doctor came to visit me and told me that I was sufficient recovered to leave the hospital, but I still needed recovery treatment and Physiotherapy.

The doctor explained to me that a few years ago, the health care in Belgium had changed.

Hospitals would only take care of urgent treatment and surgery.

For Revalidation and Physiotherapy, the patient could chose between being taken care by separate centres or at home with the help of nursery at home.

I was not keen to ask help from my friends after what happened with my brother and Karel Vandervorst and I chose for revalidation at the Salvator Revalidation Centre in Hasselt.

The Social Security person of the hospital took care to prepare the transfer documents and called a taxi to bring me to the Salvator Clinic.

I got my own room with bed, furniture, TV, Toilet and shower and even a coach.

If I would have been treated here on 12 October, I would have been already on my way to Thailand with my daughter.

I made a lot of friends the first days and we helped each other as much as possible.

The Salvator Clinic had also a beauty salon where I had my hair cut and nails trimmed.

Days were pretty much the same.

Every day at 6 AM I was waked up by a nurse who came help me get dressed after taking a shower and who took care of my wounds.

7AM to 8AM was breakfast at the level where I was lodged.

For me, this was level 2.

9AM everybody went downstairs to the revalidation room where Physiotherapists assigned us the kind of Physiotherapy we had to do.

I was still forbidden to do bicycle but I did every day the stair walking (5 stairs up and down) and the treadmill.

Although Physiotherapy was very difficult for me, even walking 5 stairs up and down, I was recovering very fast.

The problem was that the doctor had specified that my blood pressure should not be allowed to get above 120.

Walking 5 stairs up and down was enough to make my blood pressure go up to 140 and thus I had to rest before the next exercise until my blood pressure was down below 120.

At midday, everybody went to the main dining room where a full 3 course meal was served.

After lunch, everybody had free time until 2 pm.

Most people received visit at the dining room.

Others went back to the Physiotherapy for a second training.

At 4PM, coffee or thee was served at the dining room.

At 6 pm, dinner was served at the same level as the breakfast.

Some patients stayed after dinner for a chat or went to their room and looked TV.

Saturday and Sunday, everything was similar except that after lunch visitors could stay until 6 PM.

Every morning, we received a ticket which we could exchange at 4PM for a free drink.

In a conversation with her sister in Finland, my daughter wrote that “Luis told her that I was ACTING like I was in pain and wanted to go back to the hospital”.

That was again a proof that my daughter was only repeating the words of my brother like a parrot.

NOT her own words.

What was my brother up to?

Telling LIES to my daughter?

I wanted to go back to the hospital because I was almost dead while I was recovering at my brothers house.

I was not ACTING like I was in pain but I was really in pain because of my brother.

During my stay at the Salvator Clinic, I was trying to find a public instance who could help me to get my daughter back.

My health care provider did advise me to contact the CAW in a previous mail, and so I did.

The CAW (Centre for common good) is an organisation that helps people with all their questions and problems related to well-being.

I received their answer, but like all the other public services their motto was: “Mozes need to go to the mountain, the mountain don’t come to Mozes”.

How on earth could I go from my hospital bed to all these places?

Ask an ambulance to drive me with all my infuses to the CAW meeting?

After 20 years living in Thailand, this level of bureaucracy was something I could hardly understand.

Was it possible that Belgium select their public servants on the lack of understanding and the lack of empathy?

I send them an answer, specifying CLEARLY that I was in a hospital and soon I would be relocated to the recovery centre Salvator in Hasselt.

As it as almost impossible for me to travel to all these places, I would prefer to receive the visit of one of the servants of the CAW at the hospital.

As expected, I received their “standard answer” which is totally meaningless and doesn’t offer any help at all.

They would forward my question to his colleagues in Hasselt and ask them to contact me.

Meanwhile, I was sending SMS messages to my daughter in a bid to get in contact with her.

But again, a very short or no answer at all.

On 2 November, I was transferred to the revalidation centre in Hasselt and I informed the CAW of my new address.

A few hours after sending this message, the CAW from Genk contacted me telling me that they forwarded my message to Hasselt.

“In the event that they didn’t contacted you, you can contact them yourself on the phone and ask for an appointment”.

Somehow, they still didn’t understand that I was in a hospital, recovering from an operation and it was not obvious to call and make an appointment.

There were no public phones at the hospital and my SIM card had not sufficient call time to call the CAW and go trough the whole calling process where I had to spend a few hours pushing a number to select a menu option.

I don’t know why, but Belgium seemed to be the Masters in this menu option on the phone where the caller would spend on average a few hours pushing numbers while a lady (or a tape recording) on the other end was saying the menu options.

I send them an email repeating that the subject was very urgent and I did not see a care provider until yet.

I received the same meaningless answer as all the other answers.

It was obvious that the rule in Belgium was: “if you want help from a social worker, you will need to make an appointment and go to them”.

If for some reason you can not go to them, you can forget “social” care.

A few days later, I received an email from the CAW in Hasselt telling me that they had tried to contact me by phone, but didn’t succeed.

Maybe they called while I was in the exercise room, where no phones are allowed because they interfere with the medical equipment.

But no worry, I still can make an appointment and they will consider if a “home visit” is possible.

All this time I tried to contact my daughter, but every time she got on the phone my brother took over and shouted some diatribe out.

There was simply no way to communicate with my daughter without the interfering of my brother.

Later, back in Thailand and analysing the conversations of my daughter, I was astonished to read that my daughter was also convinced that I was gone “crazy” and she was telling her teacher in Thailand that: “I was not her father any more, but her uncle (Luis) was now her “guardian”.

Barely 2 weeks before I was still her “Dad” and she was waiting for me to return to her and go to Thailand together.

This was impossible something from herself.

This was fuelled by my brother.

From	Message	Date
Beebee Sattaphan	Hello.....	Nov 02, 2018 1:26am
Beebee Sattaphan	How r u?	Nov 02, 2018 1:26am
Beebee Sattaphan	I would like to let you know for now .	Nov 02, 2018 1:31am
Beebee Sattaphan	The school waiting for your dad e.mail to let us know that u will stay in Belguim for a long time then you need to resigned from Thailand school.	Nov 02, 2018 1:33am
Beebee Sattaphan	I still beside you if u need any help here.	Nov 02, 2018 1:34am
Beebee Sattaphan	Please do me a flavour , tell your dad to write an e-mail to confirm that he know we might need to resigned you from ACN school.	Nov 02, 2018 4:48am
Beebee Sattaphan	Cause of our school rules that need to resigned the students who absent continue over 15 days by any reason. The school can tell their parent to understand the school rules.	Nov 02, 2018 4:50am
Beebee Sattaphan	Thank you for your help.	Nov 02, 2018 4:51am
Mar Cosmo	Okay. I'll try to talk with my dad. Once i know that's he's okay for me to talk with him.	Nov 02, 2018 1:45pm
Beebee Sattaphan		Nov 02, 2018 1:46pm
Beebee Sattaphan		Nov 02, 2018 1:46pm
Mar Cosmo	I gotta let you know that. My dad that you know before. Isnt my dad anymore. Now my uncle is my new Guardian and i'll be studying here, in Belgium's. Not thailand. My regards Samui	Nov 02, 2018 1:52pm
Beebee Sattaphan	Why don't you say that honey?	Nov 02, 2018 1:55pm
Beebee Sattaphan	Is everything still ok?	Nov 02, 2018 1:55pm
Beebee Sattaphan	I am still waiting for your dad e-mail to accept and understand the school rules. Untill Wednesday 14th November18 We might neet to resigned from the student of ACN because of you absent day over 15 day started from second semester .	Nov 12, 2018 2:48am
Beebee Sattaphan	Reguard for your dad.	Nov 12, 2018 2:49am

This was not MY daughter who was speaking like this.

My daughter was brainwashed by my brother.

I send a message to Bieke Stinckens asking why it was not even possible to communicate with my daughter.

Her laconic answer was that “She could not answer to that and I should contact the sect named OCJ with this question”.

I asked the OCJ what was going on with my daughter, and they suggested to have a meeting at their offices with my daughter and my brother.

I had already more than 2 weeks no contact with my daughter.

On 14 November, in the morning, I took a taxi and I went to the OCJ.

As I arrived there, my brother and my daughter were waiting outside, laughing and making jokes.

Apparently, the OCJ was still closed.

I paid the taxi driver and got out of the taxi.

But I was miscalculating my strength and on leaving the taxi, I almost fell to the ground.

Luckily, I could hold myself on the taxi door and keep me up.

My daughter had been watching me and started to laugh when I fell.

How could my own daughter be so harsh to me?

My daughter which I took care off 16 years and not even 2 months ago was “full of love of her daddy”.

I was so angry that the Belgian authorities had the guts to take my daughter away from me while I was in the hospital, recovering from a severe surgery, and that the same Belgian authorities did offer NO HELP when it was still possible to get my daughter back.

A few minutes later, the doors of the OCJ opened and we were escorted to a big room with a round table.

The table was very big, I guess that it had a diameter of 4 metres, and we sat each on one quadrant of the table.

The leaders from the OCJ at 12 o’clock, me at 3 o’clock, and my brother with my daughter at 9 o’clock.

During the whole conversation, I was not able to speak a single word with my daughter.

Every time I wanted to say something to my daughter, my brother gave a sneering answer before my daughter was able to open her mouth.

The leaders from the OCJ didn’t say anything about this behaviour from my brother.

After 30 minutes, I stood up and said to the leaders from the OCJ that this “chat” was meaningless and I would not have the possibility to talk with my daughter.

Under these conditions, it was better for me to leave the meeting, I said.

The leader from the OCJ, Mr. Brummans Luc, asked everybody to leave the room, except for me and my daughter.

This was not exactly what my brother had in mind, but he was asked a second time to follow the commands of the OCJ, and he had no choice.

When everybody was out of the room and the doors were closed, my daughter came to me and embraced me.

She told me that she wanted to stay with my brother and his wife in Belgium.

I asked her if she was sure of what she wanted, but she did not answer and bow her head to the ground.

We ended the meeting and Mr. Brummans Luc promised me that he would do everything possible to “restore” the relation between me and my daughter.

Mr. Brummans Luc told me that he was not very pleased about the way this case was handled by the police, but he had no choice as it was my daughter who said that she would like to stay in Belgium with my brother and his wife, and it was my daughter who made a complaint at the police.

How could he say this after watching the hilarious show of what was happening a few minutes ago?

My brother was keeping my 16 years old daughter close to him and not allowing my daughter to speak for herself?

I took a taxi back to the revalidation centre and realised that I had lost my daughter forever.

My brother got his Pyrrhic victory.

Taking away my daughter with lies and slander while I was recovering in the hospital.

In the afternoon, I received a call from the ACW.

Call from the ACW.

They wanted to know what happened and why I wanted their help.

I answered that I did expect a quicker help as this problem was very urgent.

Now, the harm was done and I was better off by going back home to Thailand.

The next day, I took a decision and informed the recovery centre that I would fly home the next day.

I asked them to prepare all the documents for leaving and call a taxi to the airport for the next day, early in the morning.

They tried to convince me to stay, at least until the end of the month, as I was still to weak to do such a flight.

And the doctors had given the order not to fly for 3 months.

But I made up my mind and every day I would stay longer in Belgium was a day of pain and angriness towards the Belgian authorities for what they had done.

On 14 November, early in the morning, a taxi was ready to bring me to the airport.

I took farewell of all the new friends I made at the recovery centre and left.

One of them was a guy who lived also in Thailand and would fly to Thailand a month later.

His right leg was amputated.

While I was at the airport, I received a call from Karel Vandervorst, and I confirmed to him that I would fly back to Thailand soon and was regretting having called him to get me out Luis’ dungeon.

Call from Karel VanderVorst.

If he had kept his word to get me out of there, maybe I was still together with my daughter.

At the airport, I went to the first Airline Company, Russian Airlines, and asked them if they had a “last minute” flight to Bangkok, but their next flight to Bangkok would be on 17 November.

I continued to ask the Airline Company desks for a flight to Bangkok, and after a few desks I arrived at the desk from Emirates airways.

I asked them the same question, and they answered that they were just checking in.

There were still a few seats left in the Economy class, but I would need to hurry if I wanted to catch the flight.

I gave them my passport and my Credit Card and asked to book 1 seat to Bangkok.

A few minutes later, I was sitting in the air plane that would fly me back home.

Back to Thailand, where the people were always smiling and friendly.

Exactly 3 months after my arrival in Belgium.

If my brother would have took care of me, as he promised so many times, and had not kidnapped my daughter, we would have been a lot earlier back to Thailand.

In time for the exams of my daughter in December.