End of December, I decided to send my daughter a Christmas gift like we used to do already many years.
The Ukulele which she did receive on her birthday and a guitar which I build completely from scratch and where she was so proud off.
Everybody, even her Music teachers, wanted to have that guitar.
But I was 100% sure that if I would send it to my brothers home address, the package would disappear before my daughter would even see it.
So, I decided to send it to the OCJ and let it deliver personally on their next visit.
My brother had also a "Power of Attorney" on my bank account, and he had already paid some bills trough my bank account without my permission.
Although I asked him many times to withdraw his "Power of Attorney", he did not.
I informed at my bank to withdraw the "Power of Attorney" and got the answer that the only possibility was to go personally to the bank.
So, I was asking the OCJ to ask him to withdraw his "Power of Attorney".
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From: 'Trivicar' To: "Gevaert Els" Subject: Christmas/New years gift for Carmen. Date: Tuesday, 11 Dec 2018 11:04:50 +0200 Hello, Today I sent today Trivino Carmen's Christmas / New Years gift to the OCJ. The package contains an acoustic guitar that I completely made myself for her and which she was so proud of. In the same package is also the Ukulele where she started to learn to play music on. The envelope on the package may be opened and read by your services. I am sending this package to the OCJ as my brother strictly filters ALL mail to Carmen and categorically refers mail from myself to the trash bin. I fear he would make this package "disappear" before Carmen ever saw it. I would have liked to see that parcel be handed to Carmen personally by your services. If additional costs are charged (customs?), please inform me as soon as possible. I will then immediately reimburse those costs. PS.: May I ask you to request my brother WITH IMPORTANT INSISTENCE to withdraw his power of attorney from my bank account? I cannot do that from Thailand. BEST REGARDS Trivino Y Garcia A. |
Six days later, I received an answer from Els that she would take care to deliver the package personally to my daughter.
She would also discuss the "pen and paper" with my brother, as this was certainly not the intention from the OCJ and she would also ask my brother to withdraw his power of attorney.
She ended her answer with the question if I was able to resume my life in Thailand.
A stupid question as I lived already the last 18 years in Thailand and I would prefer Thailand a 100 times over Belgium.
Anybody who had been able to live in Thailand would know what I am telling about.
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From: "Gevaert Els" To: 'Trivicar' Subject: Christmas/New years gift for Carmen. Date: Mon, 17 Dec 2018 14:45:31 +0000 Hello Carlos, When the package arrives here I will make sure it gets to Carmen safely and well. I hope it gets here safely! Concerning the mail to Carmen, I will certainly discuss this with him, because that is of course not the intention! I'll ask your brother Luis the question about the power of attorney. Are you able to resume life in Thailand? Regards, Gevaert Els |
I send her my answer to the question and how I felt about all the "work" from the OCJ.
The OCJ had promised to keep the conversation between me and my daughter, but, instead of their promise, all conversation was annihilated by my brother.
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From: 'Trivicar' To: "Gevaert Els" Subject: Christmas/New years gift for Carmen. Date: Tue, 18 Dec 2018 09:15:15 +0700 Hello, Thank you for your answer. The package with the guitar is on its way, but will arrive a little later than planned due to the holidays. Regarding the email between me and Carmen, I find it regrettable that your services did not respond when I informed them about my brother's evil intentions and his short temper. Anyway, since my last meeting with Carmen at your services in Hasselt, I have had NO CONTACT with my daughter anymore. I tried to contact Carmen via emails, Facebook and Messenger, but without a reply from Carmen herself. I did get an answer from my "dear brother" to a message from Carmen's Messenger that from now on I would be "Blocked" and that I had to communicate with them with "pen and paper". This shows how much that person involves everyone in his personal resentment for what happened (through his own fault) and how he jealously manages Carmen's Social Media channels. He has FULL MONITORING of incoming and outgoing messages in all of Carmen's Social Media channels. That message (and many other similar messages from my brother) were destroyed some time later, but I keep a copy of the original messages. Anyway, I haven't heard from Carmen since our last meeting. Even worse, Carmen has chosen to COMPLETELY forget my birthday after taking care of that bitch day and night for 16 years. For me, she no longer exists and I have realized that I have devoted 16 years of my life to a heartless child. I learned in Thailand from the 1st day of my return what REAL friendship is. REAL FRIENDS who knew my health condition and took it into account. My neighbours helped me with all the necessary care for FREE. Good friends who I have known for years have helped me physically and mentally and still come to visit almost daily to see if everything is going well. I celebrated my birthday with some friends. REAL FRIENDS and not hypocrites like Carmen and my brother. Thanks again for the mail. BEST REGARDS Trivino Y Garcia A. |
I was convinced that my daughter forgot my birthday.
But I found out later, while I was reading her Facebook/Messenger, that she tried to find my Email/Facebook contact address (and also the Email/Facebook contact address of her sister Tamara) but could not find it because my brother had blocked ALL communication with the outside world.
I could barely imagine how my daughter would have feel when all her searches after family and friends failed.
On 18 December, I was informed by the postal offices in Thailand that my package was refused because it contained "Lithium-Ion" batteries and the guitar/ukulele needed also to be packed in a "Reinforced" package.
I went to the post offices to get the package back and started to make a "Reinforced" package.
I also took the Lithium-Ion batteries out of the Guitar/Ukulele.
The "Reinforced" package was made of Plywood and Aluminium profiles and the whole thing was nailed together with pop-up Rivets.
To open it, heavy material was needed.
As the returning of the package by the post and repacking everything had delayed the sending of the package, I decided to send by a courrier service.
The courrier service guaranteed that the package would arrive in Belgium with five days.
As I didn't trust that sect, the OCJ, I asked my friend Jef de Groof, if his wife would agree to translate a letter for me into Thai language.
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Samui, A little bit late, but Merry Christmas and a happy New Year. I send you in this box your (green) guitar and your ukulele (together with some other things that belong to you. In the Ukulele bag, there are also some hangers I found in your room. If there is anything else you would like to have, you can ask me now. I am cleaning up my house. I don't want to see anything from you or any other member of my "family" in my house anymore. I have tried to cancel as much as possible your name from my existence. Unfortunately, I can not cancel my name in your birth certificate and other documents because of the Thai law. But for me, you are out of my life. Wish you good luck in Belgium with Luis and Mina. PS.: Ask Luis to CANCEL his rights on MY BANK ACCOUNT. PS.: How is your horse riding? How is your Aikido going? How is your Music school going? Did Luis arrange this in Belgium for you? Bye Carlos (NOT your daddy anymore) |
สามุย สายไปหน่อย แต่ Merry Christmas และสวัสดีปีใหม่ ฉันส่งคุณในกล่องกีตาร์ของคุณ (สีเขียว) และอูคูเลเล่ของคุณพร้อมกับสิ่งอื่น ๆ ที่เป็นของคุณ ในกระเป๋าอูคูเลเล่มีไม้แขวนที่ฉันพบในห้องของคุณด้วย หากมีสิ่งใดที่คุณต้องการคุณสามารถถามฉันตอนนี้ ฉันกำลังทำความสะอาดบ้าน ฉันไม่ต้องการเห็นอะไรจากคุณหรือสมาชิกคนอื่น ๆ ของ "ครอบครัว" ของฉันในบ้านของฉันอีกต่อไป ฉันพยายามยกเลิกชื่อของคุณให้มากที่สุดเท่าที่จะเป็นไปได้ น่าเสียดายที่ฉันไม่สามารถยกเลิกชื่อของฉันในสูติบัตรและเอกสารอื่น ๆ ของคุณได้เนื่องจากกฎหมายไทย แต่สำหรับฉันคุณออกไปจากชีวิตฉัน ขอให้คุณโชคดีในเบลเยียมกับหลุยส์และมีนา ปล.: ขอให้หลุยส์ยกเลิกสิทธิ์ของเขาในบัญชีธนาคารของฉัน ป.ล. : การขี่ม้าของคุณเป็นอย่างไรบ้าง? ไอคิโดของคุณเป็นยังไงบ้าง โรงเรียนดนตรีของคุณเป็นอย่างไรบ้าง หลุยส์จัดการเรื่องนี้ในเบลเยียมเพื่อคุณหรือไม่? บาย คาร์ลอส (ไม่ใช่พ่อของคุณอีกต่อไป) |
Does it sound strange that I need to ask a sect to deliver a package to my own daughter?
Does it sound strange that I need to ask another person to translate a letter into Thai to deliver it to my own daughter?
Well, this was achieved by my brother and the sect, called OCJ.
I send an update to the OCJ about the delayed arrival of the package.
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From: 'Trivicar' To: "Gevaert, Els, ocj.hasselt@jongerenwelzijn.be" Subject: Gitaar and Ukulele. Date: Fri, 4 Jan 2019 09:37:10 +0700 Dear Gevaert Els and Luc Brummans, With a little delay, the package with the guitar and Ukulele from Carmen is on its way to Belgium and should arrive next Wednesday at the Guffenslaan in Hasselt. At the request of the shipping company (FedEx), the package is provided with a reinforced packaging and to open it will require a little more time and effort. All information about this is included in this email. Besides the guitar and the Ukulele, the package (the Ukulele sleeve) also contains necklaces from Carmen and other items. Since it has now been established without question that Luis Trivino is boycotting ALL CONTACT between me and my daughter, I would have liked you and your services to hand that parcel to my daughter WITHOUT Luis Trivino being present. Let me know about the progress of this. I would also have liked to ask you again to ask Luis Trivino to withdraw his power of attorney from my bank accounts. I don't want to have anything to do with that person and his wife any more and the constant use of his power of attorney in my bank account is getting on my nerves. He was responsible for the death of our brother Manuel Trivino and I was also almost killed by his character. In connection with the operation of the OCJ, I would have liked to let you know. In the meantime I have had time to thoroughly read the emails, Messenger and other Social websites where "my" daughter Carmen is or was registered (I have access to all this information) and my conclusion that Luis Trivino is behind the events of that particular day is hereby proven once again. I thought the OCJ's intention was for Carmen to keep in touch with me. But that turns out to be impossible as Luis has blocked me in ALL social sites of "my" daughter. "My" daughter's knowledge of computers is not enough to enter these blocks herself. In addition, Google and Facebook will ALWAYS publish the name of the device used to make these changes, and the device used is owned by Luis Trivino. I have several times tried to access the Facebook of Carmen (Mar Cosmo), but each time I was blocked by Trivino Luis. Luis Trivino finally gave up and cancelled the Facebook page of "my" daughter. By the way, Luis Trivino had sent me a message with the words of triumph: "From now on you can only communicate with Carmen with pen and paper." I'm too old to play that game and got rid of that family and "my" daughter. My daughter can still get the few things that belong to her and then she is also a thing of the past for me. Carmen has now been removed from my social life and my last will and I wish her the best of luck in her life. BEST REGARDS Trivino Y Garcia A. |
On January 7, I received an email from Gevaert Els, with the Seasons wishes and the explanation about the situation.
First, she said that she heard that "I can not cancel a Power of Attorney myself, but I would need to do it by registrered mail.
Well, I knew this already without the help from that sect.
And I did not "hear" but I've got the writte statement from the bank that in order to cancel a Power of Attorney, the person who has the Power of Attorney needs to go HIMSELF to the bank and sign his statement.
And on the "pen and paper" subject, my brother had aswerred that he did this because of my "utterances" against him and my daughter.
Who the hell did he think he was to decide about that and blocking the communication between me and all her Thai family and friends?
The sect, OCJ, should have intervene IMMEDIATLY and cancel his devilish behavior.
This would have very grave consequences and the SUICIDE ATTEMPT of my daughter 9 months later.
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From: "Gevaert Els" To: 'Trivicar' Subject: RE: Gitaar and Ukulele. Date: Mon, 7 Jan 2019 09:50:22 +0000 Hello Carlos, First and foremost my best wishes for the New Year. I hope you have a healthy year ahead! Concerning the bank: I have heard that you cannot cancel a power of attorney yourself, but that you must do this by registered mail. Perhaps you can email or inquire about this again with the bank of Belgium? Concerning the blocking on social media: Luis has stated that he has indeed blocked you because of your statements to him as well as to Samui. Is this correct? I will ask her about this in a subsequent conversation with Samui, because this is obviously not the intention. We will also speak to Luis about this, because of course the way to communicate with each other only with 'pen and paper' is no longer appropriate in this day and time. When the Christmas present arrives, I will hand it over to caramen myself, probably at school. I'll let you know. Regards, Gevaert Els |
I wrote an email back to Gevaert Els, stating again that the cancellation of the Power of Attorney was only possible if my brother wouldge PERSONALY to the bank and sign that document.
I had already several communications with the bank and they said that these are the rules of the bank.
And about the declarations of my brother for the reason of blocking all messages and cancelling her Facebook, I wrote that HE was the reason of all this and he had no rights to do this.
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From: Trivicar To: "Gevaert Els" Subject: Gitaar and Ukulele. Date: Mon, 7 Jan 2019 19:27:53 +0700 Thanks for your wishes. I have contacted the relevant bank, Belfius, several times and have always received the answer that the termination of the power of attorney of Trivino Luis is ONLY possible if he personally goes to the bank and demands the cancellation of the power of attorney. No power of attorney will be withdrawn by registered mail. Luis has not only blocked me on all of Carmen's Social Media, but also on Carmen's emails and her Messenger. With what right does he do this? I have indeed posted "statements against him." But that was after he denied me access to Carmen's Facebook and Emails with the answer "from now on you can use pen and paper if you want to communicate with Carmen". Carmen's Facebook page "Mar Cosmo, has already been cancelled by Luis. That manipulation of that person starts to work on my nerves. If he's struggling to live with the idea that I went to hospital against his orders, there are simplier solutions. Arsenic? The guitar will most likely be delivered to your services by FedEx on Wednesday. The package is now at the sorting centers in Machelen and is ready for delivery. As I said, in addition to the guitar and the Ukulele, the same package also contains necklaces and other Carmen items. I would like them to inspect those items before they get to Luis. The letter attached to the package (pink envelope) is for you and I would have liked you to read that letter. Furthermore, I only hope that Carmen has fun with her guitar. BEST REGARDS Trivino Y Garcia Abelardo |
Finally, on Januari 10th, I received an email from that sect that the parcel had arrived and she hoped to deliver it to my daughter next week.
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From: "Gevaert Els" To: 'Trivicar' Subject: gift Date: Thu, 10 Jan 2019 11:16:43 +0000 Hey, The parcel has arrived safely. I hope to deliver this to Caramen next week. Regards, Gevaert Els |
As I didn't hear anything from Els a week later, I informed again about the whereabouts of the parcel.
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From: Trivicar To: "Gevaert Els" Subject: RE: Gift. Date: 18 Jan 2019 08:15:33 +0700 Have you already delivered the package to Carmen? |
2 days after sending the email, I had still received no information and I decided to write another email to that sect.
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From: Trivicar To: jo-lijn@jongerenwelzijn.be, "Gevaert Els" Subject: Concerning my daughter Trivino Y Garcia Caramen Date: Sun, 20 Jan 2019 01:04:24 +0700 Dear, In October of last year, while recovering from a bad operation (Aortic Aneurisma), my daughter was taken from me by the OCJ without being able to put forward a shred of defense against it. Until that particular day, the relationship between me and my daughter was spotless and she saw a bright future ahead. She was 1 year away from college and was doing weekly side activities (horse riding, Aikido, guitar and music lessons, etc.). She had also (with my help) established contacts with the University and various other agencies, and could receive a financial contribution for her university studies. In the week before my daughter was abducted from me by the OCJ, the relations between my brother and me have gone wrong. My brother and his wife, had default against the prescription of the treating specialist and the hospital the necessary treatments and I needed urgently to get back to the Hospital. My brother refused to take me back to the hospital and I have called then a friend (Karel Vandevorst) to take me to the hospital. As a result, my brother became enraged and kicked me out of his house with the words: "you are not going to see your daughter Carmen back". There was little I could do in my condition and I was glad to be back in the hospital. My blood was already 65% poisoned from the bad care and the lack of medication by my brother and his wife and I was close to a painful death, according to the specialists. I was admitted to the Salvator hospital 2 weeks later to recover from surgery. During that time, suddenly all contact between me and my daughter disappeared. In the end I got the permission to see my daughter a last time before returning to my home town in Thailand. The meeting with my daughter happened at the OCJ in Hasselt in the presence of Gevaert Els and Luc Brummans. During that meeting, I couldn't say a word to my own daughter without my brother's constant laconic intervention. Upon leaving the OCJ, I was promised by Luc that I could keep contact with my daughter. But once in Thailand, all contact channels with my daughter were cancelled 1 by 1. Facebook, email, YouTube, etc. At the same time I received a message from my brother that said: “From now on you can communicate with Samui (my daughter) via pen and paper.” It goes without saying that my brother has a hand in everything here and my child is the victim of his hatred. After 4 months my daughter still does not have a valid ID card and all activities have been discontinued. Aikido, horse riding, music lessons, drawing school, etc. Is that my daughter's future? Thank you OCJ for destroying my daughter's future. I haven't had any contact with my daughter for 4 months now. Although I am still the watchful guardian, I can not get in touch with my own daughter without the interference of that Salsa dancing cuckoo. All memories of my daughter (Facebook, YouTube, etc.) are removed and only "dead links" remain. Along with me, a lot of my daughter's friends lost all contact with her and my daughter has become a pariah. About 2 weeks ago I sent a package to the OCJ with destination of my daughter, but I still don't know what happened with this package. Unfortunately I cannot do much from Thailand against this whole situation. But I sincerely hope that Karma will find its way and that punish those who turned my daughter into a poor wretch. Not best regards. Trivino Y Garcia A. |
On 22 January, I received an email from Els about the parcel.
Apparently, she had delivered the parcel already to my daughter and my daughter was very happy with the present.
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From: "Gevaert Els" To: 'Trivicar' Subject: RE: gift Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2019 09:24:04 +0000 Hello Carlos, As promised I would notify you of the delivery of the package. Last Thursday I gave it as a present to Samui. She was very happy with the content, the two guitars and the other stuff. She immediately started playing ukulele and could hardly stop! So she is very grateful to you for this! Regards, Gevaert Els |
Who was Els kidding with?
She immediately started playing ukulele and could hardly stop!
First, to open the parcel would require already some heavy tools.
Second, I have been playing Music all my life and I am a Music teacher.
All musicians knows that snare instruments should be losen the tension of the snares if not in use.
No way Samui could tune the snares by ear and the tuner was not working as I removed the batteries as required by the new air transport rules.
I send Els an email back, thanking her for the delivery and that was my last relation with that sect.
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From: Trivicar To: "Gevaert Els" Subject: RE: Gift. Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2019 19:09:55 +0700 Thanks for keeping me informed, Els. I am delighted that she appreciated the gift. The letter on the box was for you. I hope you have read that letter. Furthermore, I just hope that those gifts will not disappear by my brother. Thanks again. |
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